Nobody Ever Told Me That…

            Teaching is such a vast field ranging from different subject areas to different age groups. I recently spoke with a first year teacher that needed to vent. As she listed tasks she never anticipated doing, I reflected back on my own laundry list of items that caused stress. Here’s a few things your professor didn’t tell you:

You Raise Children

            Your college professor probably didn’t tell you that you would raise children. Yes you will teach and remind them often to use their manners. You’ll teach them how to interact with others and how to treat their friends. Respect is a requirement and you make them say,” yes ma’am and no sir.” Some days clothing will need adjusting because it doesn’t meet the dress code criteria. It’s possible to find your inner artist as you explore the world of duct tape and its use in fashion. 

You will be VERY Tired        

            There will be days that you just want to go home and go to bed. Some days you will be asleep before the sun goes down. In addition to being tired, sometimes your body will be invaded by cooties carried by your little darlings. After morning duty, recess, teaching, lesson planning, and discipline you will need rest. 

You Wear Several Hats

            Your role extends far beyond teaching and lesson plans. Duty posts are assigned to make sure students are safe. You’ll find yourself taking on tasks that you didn’t even consider yourself equipped to handle. Coaching responsibilities will magically land on your to-do list, especially if you’re a female and a position is open like…cheerleading. 

You’ll find your Inner Iyanla

            I’m sure the classes included in your teacher education program didn’t cover life coaching. In order to effectively teach a child, it’s important to know that child. Sometimes you’ll have to cheer them up or listen to what happened over the weekend. You’ll wipe tears and give hugs. Other times, you’ll be stern and offer advice from your own life lessons. 

You Will Have to Say, “Good Bye”

            One of the most challenging experiences is the loss of a student. Over the years, I’ve had to say good-byes due to illness, car accidents, and suicide. When you get a chance to get close to them, it’s very difficult. It’s a challenge to see a name on your roster and the next day it’s no longer there. 

As you reflect on your own duties, allow the times that are most rewarding to outweigh the challenges. Your contribution to your school, students, and community is extremely valuable. As Teacher Appreciation Week comes to an end, I would like to thank you for every tear you wiped, every hug good-bye, and every day that you show up to teach.